Why don't people confront the users they have problems with instead of talking trash behind their backs?

SOMEONE REPORTED ME BECAUSE THEY WERE ASKING A RUDE QUESTIONS ABOUT HOW TO R*PE A GIRL. WOW NICE. I WAS CALLED A WHO*E BECAUSE I USE A LAPTOP. WHEN PEOPLE DON'T ALLOW YOU TO IM/EMAIL... THEN IT'S HARD.